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For new doms, creating good BDSM scenes can seem as mysterious as cooking a gourmet meal without a recipe is to a novice in the kitchen. Where do you start? What ingredients do you use?

Here are our answers to those questions. Vagabond: I do two things. Additionally, I listen to whatever wild thoughts go through my mind during the day. I consider how tired we are, how much time we have, and so on. Do I want it to be degrading, or about ownership, or about you being a whore, or you being exposed? For instance, I might decide that I want to make you feel very exposed and to do that, I want to use bondage and sharps.

This is all a very fluid process, though.

Vagabond: Yes, definitely. For example, I might want to do a knife scene, which would require you to scene bdsm very still. Even a very obedient sub, like you, might not be able to do that if you got a sudden itch or a cramp. In that instance, I would replace the carbon steel knife with a wooden knife or the wartenberg wheel, which are safer ways to give you similar sensations.

Mimsy: What are some other reasons things might not go according to plan during a scene? I might intend to fuck you and make you come a bunch of times, but then I come sooner than I wanted to because you turn me on so much. Then I have to think about how best to continue the scene knowing I need about a 15 minute refractory period.

Another thing that can change the scene is how dynamic the people are, meaning how much variation there is within their roles. But some people do. Vagabond: Yeah, but I feel like it was negotiated with playful pushing and pulling with a lot of foreplay. And it was actually an option that was part of my plan.

Mimsy: I felt like you gave me an opening to resist if I wanted to take it—unspoken language. I think I give you a fair amount of ideas. Vagabond: Definitely. Did you feel any less creative or confident in how to come up with scenes?

I mean a dom wearing a belt has three dozen things they can do to a submissive psychologically and physically. Mimsy: This conversation is making me think that the key components scene bdsm creating and planning BDSM scenes are a combination of being a good listener and being creative. And at the very least, they should be able to do some self-exploration to determine what they want to feel from the scene and use that as a jumping off point to figure out how to achieve that feeling. Vagabond: I think the listening piece is key.

We hear what our partner wants through written or verbal communication and fulfill the request at the perfect moment. Mimsy: Right. Maybe not during the scene itself, but certainly prior to that. Vagabond: Princess Kali talks about doms getting subs to help them do their job. The goal should be to leave them wanting more. Vagabond: Fifty percent, probably! And often because of ridiculous things.

Mimsy: We sort of did heavy resistance on a whim the other night. Mimsy: Any final thoughts? Subscribe to our newsletter:. Cancel reply Comment Name Website. .

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